Just look at how pleased most parents were when I asked them how they feel about their kids’ manners. Ninety percent (90%) are either satisfied or very satisfied! That means all those rude kids belong to other parents.
Here are some parents reflecting on their children’s behavior:
“While there is room for improvement, I believe that my daughter genuinely cares that she not hurt people.”
“My children are generally thoughtful and considerate of others.”
“Their everyday behavior at home and in public is fine. We’re proud of them.”
“My son is totally lacking in social awareness, but is inherently good-natured (except when he gets upset).”
“My children very seldom engage in behaviors that offend people in public. However, they have a lot to learn about good manners, such as expressing appreciation and praise.”
“We have spent lots of energy teaching and role modeling, but they just don’t get it. I sometimes question whether or not I expect too much when I see how other families deal with the same situations.”
“I feel my children are respectful and considerate of others. I know they are well-liked, and I can rest easy knowing that when they are with others they will do the ‘right’ thing, such as pick up after themselves, offer to help with dishes or clean up, etc.”
“Once in a while, they have to be reminded, but I guess we all do at times.”
“Most of the time, my kids are great!”